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April Smith's avatar

Wonderful update! Continued prayers....

I mentioned on previous comments that we had a 2 month NICU stay. I learned quickly that the feeding advice is poor in the NICU. Our son thrived as soon as I changed his schedule to 9 feedings per day (rather than the 6-8 recommended by the NICU...they want you to start at 8 and drop down to 6 as you increase amounts...terrible idea!). We were able to do one overnight of 4-5 hours even with 9 per day. I chose not to wake him to eat for 2-3 of the feeds per day. He grew 1 oz per day with that.

It sounds like you are sleeping 5-6 hours in a row but he is sleeping 7 hours in a row? I would still recommend 9 feedings per day but smaller amounts to help with his spit up. 24 ounces per day may be enough if he's only having mama's milk.

Does your wife have access to an IBLBC to help transition him to SNS feeding (so bottle feeding at the breast)? My son was very lazy after months of bottle feeding, and it took 7 full days of poor feeding to transition to full-time breastfeeding. It's important to have Benjamin on the breast for palate and breathing development, so I will be praying he will transition again soon. Pumping is a full-time job and unpleasant when it's for months/years. Fed is best, though, of course.

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Jill LeBlanc's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing. I haven't heard in a while simply because I haven't been able to keep up with emails lately. But I've been wondering, and will be standing with you all in faith and prayers! I have minister friends in Naples who would be happy to come over and pray for Benjamin and you both, if you would like. Sometimes it's just nice to have the physical camaraderie of others to join with you in your healing journey. :) Feel free to private message/email me if you would like me to put you in touch with one of our minister friends. God bless.

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